How to write an online dating email to a guy

Want to know the number one trick to meeting men online and getting dates? I was online for several years before I figured it out and met my husband on I will never forget how it felt to send an endless number of emails, only for them to end up in the pit of Internet rejection hell.Between these killer emails and the chits you’re putting in your karma bank, you’ll see a positive difference in your online dating experience in no time. Here is my question: Are men ok with women sending introductory emails to them? In some ways, I see a email hello similar to a come-hither look at a bar, etc.Once you put a man on a pedestal, he’s automatically looking down at you.

When a man emails you and you’re not interested, don’t just hit Delete. Write him back, say thank you and wish him the best of luck in his search.

I’m really grateful, Jane, that you made that connection between a first email and a come-hither look at a bar.

That is EXACTLY the metaphor I use for private clients in describing the “tone” you want to capture in your initial contact.

If you want to meet a man at a bar, you cross the room, plant yourself eight feet to his diagonal, wait for eye contact and smile. While you might have “made the first move”, you’re still in control, since he has to approach you. Emails that tell a man that he’s interesting are dull.

Emails that tell a man that you hope he writes back are weak.

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